Good
morning alumni's, it’s an honor to speak to you today here in Harvard. May i
introduce myself, my name is Alonso Jander and today i want to talk about of
how money and ambition may affect in your value of friendship.
First of
all it’s important to define what is ambition, the ambition defined by the
oxford dictionary means “an earnest desire for some type of achievement or
distinction, as power, honor, fame, or wealth, and the willingness to strive
for its attainment” but how far can this desire take us, how much things are
you willing to sacrifice to achieve your goals, your friends, your family, the
ones you LOVE?, think about it. I’m not saying that you must quit every time
you have problems with your objectives, I’m talking about the precaution you
must have in this journey of life and how it may affect it, in this case in the
relations with the ones that are beside you such as family but more important
your friends, because everyone it’s part of a family, but not everybody has
“real” friends, as the old expression says, the real friends can be counted
with the fingers of a hand.
Since that
the human being is dependent to exchanges of products to survive, the human
being has adopted ways to acquire this products first exchanging objects for
objects (barter), but nowadays we exchange this products for "money”.
Since this invention of money the world and the society completely changed on
how it functions. Nowadays it’s possible to say that the world is ruled by
money, if you don’t have money you can’t do the things you like or even live a
decent life the actual society has the pattern of: study, get a good job, and
try to have the biggest amount of profit as you can so you can live a decent
life in this world. The problems of this money-ruled society is that the money
most of the times brings more problems than solutions such as envy and
difference, but I just want to talk about two of the thousands problems that
brings money; the corruption and ambition.
Ambition
can be good sometimes to achieve your personal goals in your life, but as I
have seen in the present society’s most of the time ambition consumes the human
and corrupt his values which lead to the social crisis of this individual,
loose of friendships and even the family for the sake of money, sacrificing all
just for money stained with the loss of your relations.
A great
example of this, is in the recently story of the millionaire Mark Zuckerberg.
This story begins in this exact university Mark was one of you in the past a
imperturbable and brilliant student of this prestigious university and now he
is the CEO of one of the most popular websites in the world, Facebook. But like
all the big industries he first started with nothing but a purpose, in this
case the purpose was to create a webpage in the beginning only accessible to
the students of the university´s but it quickly became worldwide, but in the
very beginning it all started in a apartment with 3 friends and a computer. In
the beginning Mark and his best friend Eduardo started with the website here in
Harvard as I said, and then expanding it to other universities around the
country. In less than a year Facebook was already very famous and started
getting bigger which means that more people joined the website. Now is here
where the earnings started to grow to enormous numbers, so mark decided to hire
Sean Parker the cofounder of Napstera wicked character which his only
motivation in his life is making money no matter what, this individual started
to play with Mark´s head and convinced
him that Eduardo CFO of the webpage and his best friend was a burden to the
company and finally made Mark to cut a
gigantic part of the earnings of his CFO Eduardo his best friend. Cutting his
35% of the earnings to a 0.35% of the company. And later clearly out of Mark
expectations Eduardo sued him, and after the long and exhausting trial all that
Mark won was a destroyed friendship and millions lost in payments.
There’s a
clear message in this story, in how extreme ambition can destroy your relation
with the people you love, family and friends. So i ask you the following
question is it worth to lose a life lasting relationship for some dirty money?
The reason
i tell you this story is because you are the future of the world, my generation
is already lost in greed and ambition, but you ladies and gentleman will be the
future generation of professionals in the world, and i personally ask you to
always be careful and balance the ambitious life goals that you have with your
relation with your close ones, always analogies what is the correct thing
because it is something you will encounter day a day in the present, the XXI
century.
Please
remember the words i just told you if the moment comes.
Thanks for
listening
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